The Good, The Bad: version 1.0

It was just one of those days that is easier to sum up with a list of Goods and Bads. I'll do the Bads first since I'm into the Polyanna approach to life. The Bad: *Not five minutes after getting up, I broke one of our glasses...inside the dishwasher. Gary helped me pick the shards out of the heating element.

*When I went to start the car, I noticed the ipod was low on juice, so I plugged it in and I'm pretty sure that's when it decided life was no longer worth living. No power, no apple thingy, nada. Not even plugged into the wall :(

*At her GI appointment, Doc informed us that there are indeed too many eosinophils hanging out in her gut, more than the last biopsy. Now we will do the elemental diet for three weeks which translates to yanking all (four) of her solid foods and going formula only. That also means another biopsy within the next month and a half.

*No food means no Speech Therapy, just when an appointment opened up on Wednesday. She doesn't necessarily need the speech part, but this particular therapist does "eating therapy" for kids with texture and sensory problems.

*Mia is now anemic. Even though her iron level is good, her test still came back saying she has anemia and from what Doc said it isn't surprising. Apparently people who are chronically sick can become anemic even when they are consuming enough iron... I'm still trying to get my brain around that one. Hello, Library.

End the whining, and now for The Good: * We got all of the glass out of the dishwasher.

*I fixed the ipod. This may not seem like a big deal, but for anyone who knows just how electronically challenged I am, it is indeed a big deal. I'm pleased whenever I get a blog posted successfully.

*The level of eosinophils is not so bad that her gut is trashed or in danger of becoming trashed anytime soon. We could theoretically go on feeding her the way we have been, but we all want a definitive answer of some kind. We do have to prepare ourselves for the possibility that the tapioca could be part of the problem, but with an amazing nutritionist we aren't as frightened as we could be. There are other carbohydrates to try. We took 10 steps forward over the summer, so two steps back still leaves us with 8 in the positive.

*Her nutrition labs, other than the anemia, look awesome. She is getting everything she needs and it seems like her body is using it properly.

* We had fun decorating the tree. Hey, I needed more good than bad and you're just a scrooge to lump a Christmas tree into a category other than good. Mia had more fun with the box. She thought of it as a train. She has a thing for pretending to be a train lately. I'm not entirely sure I know where it came from.

*Oh I have another good! Disc one of Greys Anatomy Season Three is on it's way from netflix. That's good!

CHOO CHOO!

Thanksgiving

Our Thanksgiving was very nice, very wet and very stress-free! We had breakfast with our friends that live a few houses over. Their families came over and it was a full house! We enjoy spending time with them because they are so conscientious about making sure their hands are washed and the kid's table is cleaned up immediately so that Mia is safe. Even though it was a breakfast we weren't on edge or so paranoid that we couldn't enjoy the morning. Mia loves playing with their kids/nieces/nephews so everyone has a good time. I left the neighbor's house early to star in on the sweet potato and green bean casseroles (ended up burning the first, darnit) but not before making that obligatory grocery store run for whatever it is that everyone always forgets. Never fails!
Casseroles made, we go over to a friend's house on post for a dinner gathering with a few people from the unit. The kids had a great time being noisy and playing. Tom makes the best ham and baked beans, and a lot of it! If there were nothing else to eat you wouldn't starve!

I'm a bit embarrassed to say that I did participate in Black Friday... I went to JoAnn's because they were having a killer deal on several things I needed to do the presents this year, not to mention the cheap pre-lit Christmas Tree that was hard to pass up. I had a list, I went in and I got out. Well, I would have if I had not been a supreme idiot and left my cards in the other handbag. Luckily the cashier took pity and held my things while I drove back to Eagle River (slowly, since my license was among the cards.) That prompted the one selfish purchase of the day; I got a wallet.

Big News!!

We've been trying to secure an appointment with Dr. Ochs at Seattle Children's Hospital since we came back to Alaska. They needed the records from Atlanta and the first attempt to send them got botched with a wrong fax number (most likely misread or scrambled) and after not hearing anything for two and a half weeks, I called Seattle to start the process again. It worked because we got the call this morning! Dr. Ochs has decided that she is worth seeing! He is an expert on many hyper immunoglobulin disorders, so his opinion will be paramount for her diagnosis that Dr. Levy gave in Atlanta. We (we=me, gary and the various docs up here) are not convinced that Mia does indeed have Hyper IgE Syndrome. She fits nicely into the dx (short for diagnosis) but the dx doesn't fit nicely around her. It's like a puzzle piece in a slot that is too big for it. She does have two of the three hallmarks for the HIES, but her blood work is normal and that is not consistent with this dx. Regardless, the treatment is working so I'm not concerned with a name at this point. Time is probably going to be the biggest determining factor and IVIG is used for so many things, it isn't disease specific. It has been used for severe recalcitrant eczema before so this treatment isn't so far out of the box that we wouldn't be able to get it again. So, the appointment is for 11 December. When the scheduling girl called she said that someone cancelled an appointment for that date, would we like it? I think my response was something like "You betcha." I think we have most of our important things in line, like the authorization numbers, the appointment and the airline reservations. Our orders will be cut and ready the first week of December and then we just have to confirm the flight. The lodging, rental car and food will be out of pocket but it will be in our orders so we can get reimbursed for it. Unfortunately, we've decided that Gary will stay behind because they only cover one adult to go with her since it is not a major procedure. I think the biggest thing that could happen would be a blood draw, so while it would be great to have him there, we could put that $600 to work elsewhere, say that Ru we just got :) It is better this way so he won't be charged leave time and he trusts me to relay accurate information (I'm practically going through med school anyway) and keep him in the light. So 10 December it's wheels up, then we get back on the 12th. That was a nice thing to wake up to.
The picture above is from her FOCUS appointment this morning. We didn't even have to tell Mia how to play with the SitNSpin, she got it on her own after a few twists! Karen brings different toys and activities to each appointment. They all have some developmental purpose, and most of the time I end up asking "Why didn't I think of that?" When I worked at the Child Development Center, I knew that everything we did and played had a teaching purpose and a developmental punchline, but somehow it's different in your own home with your own kid. It feels like it's "just playing" when she is actually learning. It's an environmental mindset for me I guess. I'm looking for some books that have ideas for different learning play and games so I won't get stuck doing the same thing with her. It's nice that Karen brings some spontaneity but I want to offer something new myself. There is a book called Slow and Steady Get Me Ready that is supposed to be a very good activity book from birth to kindergarten age. I bookmarked on on Ebay then missed the bid, dangit. I feel like I'm doing a decent job with what I have and what I know, the kid can count to 12 and says things like "Wow that's amazing!" so how off track can we really be? Gary loves hearing her little quasi-sentences and gets a kick out of the Daddy's Home greeting he gets (most) every day. He taught her the loudest, roughest duck quack, which I didn't know about until the pasta isle in the grocery store. That was fun.

The picture above is more for bragging, I'll admit. Mia has grown a lot in the past two months, mostly filling out where kids are supposed to. She is still about 34" but now weighs 23lbs and 12oz according to the measurements taken at the hospital yesterday. So all of those 24 month clothes we picked up in Ga are too small now! I have been trying to squeeze her into shirts until they absolutely HAVE to go into The Box. Now, when I sound like I'm struggling to get her into a shirt she says, "Suck it in!" She's a riot! Anyway, in the picture she is wearing a pair of corduroy pants I made for her. I have a lot of fabric and patterns that I have been squirreling away for who knows what, and they have come to good use this month. I just keep my sewing machine set up on the dining table (sewing room is overrun with the flooring project that never ends) because I crank out at least one garment a week. Then there is JoAnns... I still go in and can't come out without one yard of something that someone would look good in!

Thanks for sending the pony, Mimmy! Mia also loves her new blue outfit. She put up a huge cattywompus when I put them into the laundry basket so we had to have a try on session immediately. She's always super crabby after her infusions

Mia had her IVIG infusion at Prov today. Other than the ladies in Admission not knowing what to do, it went off without a hitch this time. It takes a good two hours for the pharmacy to mix the stuff so we played and read books and fed Rabbit some of her special formula. Rabbit is now in the "bath." We had an erraned to do which leads into The Test! The Subaru handles like a dream! I feel very safe inside, which says a lot because Anchorage is the frozen juice section for stupidity; it's all concentrated. With only two highways, I don't know why I'm surprised. We had to go into an unplowed neighborhood to pick up a Freecycle thing, and I had zero problems. This thing rocks.

Mia has acquired a new slide from our FOCUS interventionist, Karen. Not that we even had room for it, but it was a big deal to slide at playgroup and it gets her climbing and using the leg that has us worried. She has always favored her right leg and it has everyone a little concerned so we are seeking a PT evaluation. Every morning, we must slide at least once before starting the day! We've been drafted into the Christmas pagent at church. I did mean to say "we." Mia is to be an angel, but she is the littlest and most mischievious of the angels so I'm going to don a pair of wings to pull rank on her!

So this is my Outback! We've been getting a decent amount of snow so this weekend has been a good little practice time for me. The real test will be taking Mia to her IVIG infusion at Providence in Anchorage tomorrow. That means snow AND idiot city drivers. Everyone send some good vibes our way!

Let's give this a try...

This is where I can ramble on and on about what is going on in our little family unit. This way if family and friends are curious about Mia, Gary or even me they can come to one spot instead of having their inbox spammed with boring accounts of the latest poopy diaper or my inablity to purl my way out of a wet paper bag. Some people don't want to read about poo, and I can respect that!

Mia is taking her job as a two year old very seriously. I hear "no" and "whats that" a lot. She enjoys playing with her dress up clothes and can ring around the rosies all day. Her health situation has improved greatly since our visit to Georgia and the hospitalization for staph sepsis/eczema herpeticum. The IVIG infusions have been the golden ticket. She still has contact reactions every day, but we haven't seen a single skin infection since that awful month this summer. This is the longest stretch of time without antibiotics! At our last appointment with the allergist on Wednesday, we came up with a plan for the IVIG; after six more months of infusions we will re-evaluate where she is with her skin and overall health, then go from there. Yesterday we had an EGD and Colonoscopy procedure to look at her GI tract and take some biopsies for an eosinophil count. This is very important since she is eating a couple of foods (kamut, carrots, broccoli, quinoa) because she is still having some mucousy diapers and some MAJOR gas and bloating. Every day is a lottery for my nose! As one mom said on my favorite allergy support board (kidswithfoodallergies.org) "Russian poo-lette!" If her eosinophils count is still too high, that means that one or more of those foods are causing a reaction and we will probably have to do an elimination diet again. Regardless, she is doing very well and is now in the 5th percentile for each weight and height, and in the 25th for those two combined. We are officially back on the charts! She weighs 23lbs but hasn't really grown. Monday is another IVIG infusion at Childrens of Providence. They are really great with her, and ask before using ANYTHING. They are also latex free! We have our first endocrinology consult next week to make sure the growth hormone levels are where they need to be. We don't want to miss anything. She is making leaps and bounds and we don't want it to stop!

Gary is learning to deal with a new driveway dynamic. We have been on an intensive debt paydown mission these past few months and finally hit our goal. We bought a new car! At first we were looking at the Jeep Patriot. We like Jeeps, they are reliable and Gary knows how to do the majority of upkeep. I wasn't feeling it. I could definately live with it, happily too. But I have been lusting after an Outback wagon for a while now, and the Subaru reputation for being a good reliable vehicle without a punch in the gastank is very attractive. I scoured Craigslist until we found an 05 Outback at our price. It's one sexy suby. The only con is that it is an automatic where we wanted a manual. For the price, room and heated seats, I can get over the stick thing. I know Gary loves me because there is definately a certain personality group that gravitates towards the Subaru family, and he is willing to have one in the driveway next to the Man Jeep!

I just finished my first round of knitting classes. I still suck, but less than before. I can now sort-of-purl. My partial scarf isn't as sloppy as my first attempts (which I can NOT believe I gave to people!) I actually made a successful start at a hat, which will promptly be frogged the second I mess up. I've also been sewing like madwoman for our little bird who just keeps growing! She didn't stay in 24 month size very long at all. That is good overall, but not good because that is the size we mostly had! I have found a few european patterns that actually look like they grow with the child, so that should help! I even made two shirts for myself, one of which may not be public worthy. I'm not very good with knits yet :(

We are trying to solve Christmas dilemmas at the moment. We finally figured out what we will be doing for Thanksgiving (NOT dishes!) and now we need to figure out the tree thing. We won't be getting a live one because it's a bad idea with Mia's allergies and our fake tree that Gary's mom gave us is beyond it's last legs! It will still work, but I think it's dropping more needles than a live tree. It had a good run and a long life. Maybe I could turn it into a wreath... We just have to look at a faux tree as an investment, one that will pay for itself in two Christmases since a decent live tree is at least $70 up here. We have her gifts mostly covered. There is a store called Classic Toys in Anchorage that has the best toys and they send out a catalog every October. We made a budget, went throught the catalog and then I went to the store where we came in five dollars under our limit! They were super helpful and went out of their way to find out if certain "rubber" items were latex free. The only thing I wanted to get her and haven't yet is a storyboard. I remember a felt story board from sunday school and thought it was the coolest idea. She loves stickers, but the tack sometimes makes her break out. I figured this would be close enough to stickers. I'm concerned about the felt, but our friend (who runs a daycare) showed me how to make one and gave me some ideas that didn't involve a lot of wool felt but interfacing in place of it. As soon as I finish the projects I have going, I'll start on that.

I've rambled enough for a first post.